dejjjja:


Put a letter in my ask.
A - If I’m in love.
B -  Who the last person I talked to on the phone was.
C - How long it’s been since I’ve kissed.
D - If I have a preference for boys or girls.
E - How many holes I have in my ears.
F - Give me any options, like ‘hot or cold?’
G -  The last person I said ‘I love you’ to.
H - The last person I hugged.
I - The last time I felt jealous, and why.
J - How old I am.
K- What my full name is.
L - If I have siblings.
M - If I forgive betrayal.
N - If you want to know how I treat my friends.
O - If I like my school.
P - What kind of music I like.
Q - What the last party I went to was, and when the next will be.
R - For me to tell 10 of my curiosities.
S - 2 habits.
T- 5 things I love unconditionally.
U - How many texts I send daily.
V - 3 big dreams.
W - An idol.
X - If I’ve done something I regret very much.
Y - If I like my town and why.
Z - Ask any question you want.

dejjjja:

Put a letter in my ask.

A - If I’m in love.

B -  Who the last person I talked to on the phone was.

C - How long it’s been since I’ve kissed.

D - If I have a preference for boys or girls.

E - How many holes I have in my ears.

F - Give me any options, like ‘hot or cold?’

G -  The last person I said ‘I love you’ to.

H - The last person I hugged.

I - The last time I felt jealous, and why.

J - How old I am.

K- What my full name is.

L - If I have siblings.

M - If I forgive betrayal.

N - If you want to know how I treat my friends.

O - If I like my school.

P - What kind of music I like.

Q - What the last party I went to was, and when the next will be.

R - For me to tell 10 of my curiosities.

S - 2 habits.

T- 5 things I love unconditionally.

U - How many texts I send daily.

V - 3 big dreams.

W - An idol.

X - If I’ve done something I regret very much.

Y - If I like my town and why.

Z - Ask any question you want.

(via fortheloveofkisses)




Q
are you guys okay?
Anonymous
A

Hahahha yeah we’ve been gone for a while. Sorry bout that. Yeah everything is fine now. Both of us have been reaaaaally busy, so we havnt had time and have neglected the blog. But i hope we’re back now

~Girl


Q
Alright well, me and a guy, who happens to be friends with me and all my friends, have been texting almost non stop the last week or so. It's been cute, he offered to be my first kiss but I don't want that if I'm not dating. But anyways he has been sending so many mixed signals lately I woke up to a text the other day that said "Hey beautiful" and today he sent one that started out with "Her friend." I just don't know what to think of it. Help? My friends are inexperienced and it would be nice:)
Anonymous
A

That does seem pretty confusing. The only thing i can really think of is to respond to the “hey beautiful” kind of texts with flirting as well. The fact that he was willing to kiss you says to me that he’s interested. See where that takes you, but make sure that he knows you want a relationship out of this. Not just some kind of fling.

~Girl


Q
Hi, how come no one asks questions anymore? or have you two been busy? btw its that ever annoying guy again :) just came back since i was curious to see how the blogs been coming along, people are missing out on an awesome source of good advice here from you two!
Anonymous
A

boy here, we have been pretty busy this summer and have had a few complications with our relationship but hopefully we will be back soon



Q
absolute final question. just need some sort of help in getting closure for myself. please help me out in my attempt to correctly collect my thoughts... as youve read my story, i had left what eventually ended the relationship out. looking back i completely ruined my chances by not giving thought to Boy's response: giving it time. i overtexted the first two weeks, but it was constant back and forth, both of us seemed to enjoy it. but i think it was too much... then asking her to by my gf after only two weeks. now i feel like this was such a horrible mistake, out of my selfish desire to have a special someone after not chasing any other girl bc they werent worth it i rushed her into it even if she said yes and i wanted to have something couples like you have, those normal routines of going out, sweet talking each other. and most likely the worst thing i did was get to kissing after only a week, i feel absolutely disgusting, again even if she wanted to and after i had asked her repeatedly if it was moving too fast. well it caught up with me, since she lives an hours trip away, the semester ended, no more of that consistent seeing each other, she works too, and ive just about revealed that i have too much free time at least during this three week summer break. she ended it because i was giving too much in the relationship and she wasnt because of other priorities although she somewhat wanted to. how do i handle this, anything really any single advice would help me. thanks for your advice you two, God bless.
Anonymous
A

~Girl

I’m sorry to hear that it didn’t work out too well for you. It sounded like things were going smoothly. It sounds to me like it was fine that you asked to go out with her when you did, and the kissing thing, Boy and I kissed a few days after going out. In our day and age, kissing isn’t as big a deal as in the past, at least not in my age group. I think everyone has the right to have someone that they can care about and who cares about them, and there’s nothing wrong with you wanting that as well. It’ll take a bit to feel better about things, but I guess the thing here to realize is to consider the outside facts before you commit to a relationship. I had a friend who had a boyfriend, but the boyfriend moved to England, yet she continued to go out with him. With that situation, it wasn’t even really a relationship anymore. She didn’t see him for a year or so, and if I’m not mistaken, both of them cheated on each other at some point. So even though they might have all the attraction and passion in the world for each other, the relationship wouldn’t have worked anyway just because of outside factors. This is an extreme example, but I think it illustrates the point. So this time around, I’d try looking for a girl who lives closer to you, and can invest about the same about of time and energy that you can into the relationship. Overall, you sound like a really nice, awesome guy, and you’d be surprised how many girls out there would appreciate it. I wish you luck, my friend, on your travels :D


Q
hey first poster here, just wanted to ask whats your take on texting/phone calling? i text my girl through the whole day literally, usually its like half hour in btwn replies, but its only bc i want to talk to her and a phone call i would only talk with her for a few hours. am i being too clingy with her? i mean im not obsessed but i just want to keep contact, not let her forget about me since we're a ways apart. from what im feelin too, i want to know her more than she does me... this being my first relationship i just want to be just right with her but it makes me confused and a bit embarrased to be constantly overthinking things. whats your pov boy and girl?
Anonymous
A

~Girl

Well cell phones are really the thing that makes our relationship work. We live about an hour and a half away from each other, so because we can’t see each other all the time, we talk a lot through texting. Boy and I text almost constantly throughout the day, school and activities permitting. You are deffinetly not being too clingy xD Just think about how often you’d talk to a friend who you’re really close with, because that’s really one of the things you two should be, best friends.


Q
what do you think is most important in a relationship?
honesty or loyalty?
Anonymous
A

~Girl

Holy crap that is a hard question… Truthfully, I think you have to have both. I know that you’re going to say “no! you can only pick one!” but I really think that both must be present in order to have a good relationship. If you’re not honest about things, then you’re partner will never fully know the real you, and without loyalty, how can you be in a relationship in the first place? I mean, even with an open relationship you need some kind of loyalty. So yeah, both are important :)

Boy here: I think honesty is more important always. Girl and I talked about this not that long ago but I think the way you phrased your question confused her. Basically we said that if we ever had a desire to cheat or be intimate with another person, we would rather have the other person tell us and then deal with the urges together rather than go behind our backs so we don’t get upset. I think if you can’t be loyal, it is very important that you are honest about it and talk to your partner about your feelings before you go ahead and do something stupid and wreck a great relationship